My boyfriend and I have been going together for several years and I think we have a serious relationship, but he likes to go out riding his motorcycle without telling me and I get worried when don’t hear from him and I can’t reach him.
I get upset when I’m sitting at home alone worrying about him and I can’t reach him, especially on a weekend night when we could be doing something together.
Queenie, am I asking too much?—Lonely girlfriend
Unless you and your boyfriend have made definite plans for any night, assume he is not coming and arrange to do something with your family or other friends. It will keep you too busy to worry about him, and he probably will be much more interested in you if he knows you are not just sitting around waiting for him.