After we were married for several years I found out my husband was cheating on me. We went to counselling and stayed together for our children’s sake but recently I found out he was cheating on me again and probably has been for a long time.
Queenie, should I talk to the woman he is seeing and tell her he is married and to leave him alone, or what should I do?—Miserable wife
Dear Miserable wife,
Talking to the other woman probably will not do much good. She probably knows her boyfriend (your husband) is a married man and just does not care.
You need to decide whether it is worth it to you to stay married to this man and what you have to do based on your decision. Professional and legal counselling will help you decide.