Dear Queenie,
My mother just told me that she and my father are thinking about getting divorced.
Queenie, how will I choose who I’m going to live with? And whichever one I choose, how will I get to see the other one and the other grandparents?—Confused child
Dear Child,
Your mother should not have talked to you about all this until she and your father had settled matters between them, which would include who would have custody and visitation rights for the non-custodial parent.
Talk to your parents about all this, and remember that, from what you say, none of this is definite yet and your parents may still work things out between them.
