Dear Queenie,
I am very uncomfortable in large groups, but I manage to get along on special occasions like birthday parties and holidays with family. However, some of my relatives think I would be alright if I just tried harder.
Queenie, how do I make them understand?—Agoraphobic
Dear Agoraphobic,
Some people just do not understand about phobias. A medical professional might be able to explain it to them, if they would listen, but until that happens you will just have to try to ignore the doubters and spend less time with them.