Dear Queenie,
A long time ago my wife cheated on me and when I found out she said she would stop and we went for counselling, but I still do not know if I can believe her.
Queenie, what more can I do?—Betrayed husband
Dear Husband,
Can you check your wife’s phone and/or email to see whether she is hiding anything from you? If she is, you have reason to be worried, but if she is not, you do not.
Talk to her about this and, if necessary, go back for (or continue) counselling.
