Dear Queenie,
I’m in my 60s and I have custody of both my pre-school-age grandchildren. People tell me I should let them be adopted by parents who are much younger than me.
Queenie, I want what’s best for my grandchildren. What do you think I should do?—Concerned grandmother
Dear Grandmother,
If you have good health and plenty of energy, keep your grandchildren, but make arrangements for them to be taken care of if anything happens to you.