Dear Queenie,
A member of my family molested me when I was a teenager, but our family had a good life and other than that he treated me very well. He is long gone now, but I still remember him with some affection.
Queenie, is that a normal way to feel?—Confused
Dear Confused,
Yes, it is normal to care for someone in spite of their deficiencies. I congratulate you for being able to remember the good things in your life as well as the bad ones.
