Dear Queenie,
My husband and I are in our 60s and he has some health problems that have pretty much killed his ability to have sex and his wish to do it.
I miss all that but I don’t want to hurt his feelings by talking about it.
Queenie, what can I do?—Deprived wife
Dear Wife,
Surely your husband also misses “all that”, but he may not realise how much you miss it too. Tell him you love him and ask him what you can do to help. Also, suggest talking to his doctor about it and asking for any medical help there may be.
