Dear Queenie,
Firstly, thank you for the work that you do.
My question to you is that I have a friend who says she doesn’t want to be around my fiance, that whenever we link up to not bring him around. When I asked her give me one good reason why, she replied saying she “doesn't take his spirit, he seems un-geniune."
To me that's disrespectful of her, but I don’t know if it's disrespectful and I don’t know what my next plan of action should be in regard to this.
Queenie, please help.—Detoxifying
Dear Detoxifying,
Firstly, thank you for your words of appreciation.
My answer to you is that it is not necessarily disrespectful of your friend to not like your fiance. If she does not like him, see her without him and do not try to bring them together.
However, if you trust your friend’s judgement, you might ask her (and yourself) what she finds “un-genuine” about him.
