Dear Queenie,
I raised my daughter to behave quietly in the house and to have respect for other people’s belongings, but she is not raising my grandchildren that way.
Queenie, what can I do when they come to visit me and they run around making all sorts of noise and messing with my things?—Disgusted grandmother
Dear Grandmother,
Either you will have to make your home soundproof and your belongings childproof, or you will have to have contact with your daughter and her children only in their home.