Dear Queenie,
My wife is usually on the quiet side, but when we go to a party or some such social event she sometimes drinks too much and gets too loud – cheerful, but still drunk.
Queenie, is there anything I can do about it?—Disgusted husband
Dear Husband,
When your wife goes to her doctor for a checkup you can discuss your concerns with her doctor. You could also record her behaviour on your cell phone and show it to her when she is sober so she can “see herself as others see her” – and hope it helps.