Dear Queenie,
A couple of years ago I had an affair with someone where I work. It’s been over for more than a year, but recently he started showing interest in starting up with me again. I’m married now and I just don’t want to get involved with him again at all.
Queenie, how do I make him understand that I’m just not interested any more?—Ex-girlfriend
Dear Ex-girlfriend,
You may have to spell your feelings out to this Romeo in simple terms, and if your husband ever picks you up from work, find a way to let Romeo see him and maybe even introduce them to each other. If necessary, you may have to report this to Human Resources, if your workplace has such a department.
