Dear Queenie,
I have a full-time job where I work with other women, but mostly a lot of men, and sometimes we socialize outside of working hours. My husband is convinced that I must be having an affair with at least one of the men, or maybe more than one! I understand that this is because he is insecure and does not think well of himself, but I can’t get him to stop.
Queenie, how can I convince him that I have always been faithful to him?—Faithful wife
Dear Wife,
I do not want to add to your problems, but have you considered that maybe your husband’s suspicions are a reflection of his own behaviour – that he has been unfaithful to you?
Tell him that his accusations are making you wonder about him, and suggest that the two of you go for professional marriage counselling. And, as usual, I suggest that if he will not go with you, you should go alone to get help learning to cope with the way he treats you.
