Dear Queenie,
I have a full-time job, sometimes with overtime, and my wife works too. Then when we get home from work she is always after me to help out with cleaning the house or cooking a meal.
Queenie, why does she want me to do her woman’s work?—Fed-up husband
Dear Husband,
If your wife has a job and is contributing financially to your marriage, she is doing your “man’s work” and it is only fair that you share her “woman’s work”.
If you refuse to do so, my advice is for her: Use (at least some of) the income from your outside job to hire someone clean the house and do the cooking.