Dear Queenie,
We have some friends who are not as well-off as we are and when we make plans to do something with them we have to be sure it is something they can afford, but this really limits the things we can do with them.
Queenie, what do you suggest?—Feeling restricted
Dear Feeling restricted,
When you want to see them, choose to do something they can afford. When you want to do something they may not be able to afford, let them know you are prepared to help them with the expense and do not be offended if they decline the invitation.