Dear Queenie,
I have tattoos of flowers on my arms that I think are beautiful, but sometimes people, even relatives, will talk about how they don’t like tattoos and think they make your body ugly.
Queenie, what’s a good way to answer them and tell them how they hurt my feelings?—Flower girl
Dear Flower girl,
Just tell them that you think they are beautiful and that is what matters. And if they keep repeating their comments, repeat your reply and ask them to stop being so insulting.