Dear Queenie,
My wife and I have been married for almost 30 years and she is still just as beautiful as the day we got married. My only problem is that she just isn’t interested in sex and we have it about once every 2 weeks. She seems to enjoy it once we get started but when I asked her why not more often she said what we have is enough for her and more would be “too much work.”
Queenie, can you give me any advice?—Frustrated husband
Dear Husband,
Ask your wife to talk to her doctor about this – and try to be with her when she does, if both of them will permit it.
Beyond that, try to concentrate on all the other aspects of your marriage that make you happy and be thankful for them.