Dear Queenie,
My neighbors are very helpful, cleaning my yard and bringing me treats.
I have given them gifts to thank them, but if I always do that I’m afraid they will feel obligated to continue to do things for me.
Queenie, what do you think?—Grateful neighbor
Dear Grateful,
I think your neighbours understand the reason for your gifts and if they continue to help you, continue to be grateful. You could also offer to return the favour any time they take a trip or need some help.
