Dear Queenie,
I have a good job and have to dress well for it. My wife is a stay-at-home mother.
I need to buy good clothes to wear for my job, but my wife gets mad about the money I spend on them when she can’t get the new clothes she wants.
Queenie, what do you say about this?—Her husband
Dear Husband,
If this is a financial problem, I recommend professional financial advice.
If the problem is not, or is more than, financial, I recommend professional marriage counselling.