Dear Queenie,
I have my own business and mostly I do pretty well, but there have been some hard times too. When things get bad my wife goes out and has an affair to make up for the money and attention I can’t give her.
Queenie, I feel like a fool for still loving her. What do you think?—Husband in love
Dear Husband,
I think if your wife really loved you she would try to help you out during the bad times, maybe even get a job to help pay the bills, but not sneak around with some other man behind your back. I think this is not a healthy relationship and you should seriously consider whether you want it to continue – with professional counselling if you need it, and perhaps a good lawyer.