Dear Queenie,
My daughter married a man from a rich family and since the wedding they have spent a lot of time with his family but don’t have any time for us, her parents, and we hardly ever even hear from them.
We treated this man like one of our own and it’s hard to believe he doesn’t want any relationship with the people who are going to be his children’s (if they ever have any) grandparents.
Queenie, is there anything we can do to make things better?—Lonely in-laws
Dear In-laws,
Keep in touch with your daughter and, through her, with your son-in-law, ask her if you have done anything to offend her or her husband, and hope things will improve when (if) they have children.