Dear Queenie,
I have lost most of my loved ones because of illness or accidents or just old age. My wife and the friends and relatives I have left have helped me get through it all, but I find it upsetting when I hear other people complain about their family or friends about little things.
Queenie, at times like that should I remind them how lucky they are to still have their friend or loved one?—Mourning my losses
Dear Mourning,
You could, but unless you are ready to discuss your situation with them in detail it is not likely that the persons about whom you complain will change what they do.
