Dear Queenie,
My husband and I are separated and going to get a divorce, but our 25th anniversary is coming up and we are still married.
Queenie, do you think this is still something to celebrate or should we just ignore it?—Not yet an ex
Dear Not yet an ex,
If you and your husband are still on fairly good terms, this is a landmark not to be ignored, even though you may not feel like celebrating it. Send him a card or even give him a call just to say “hello.” On the other hand, if the two of you are not even speaking to each other, just ignore the event.
