Dear Queenie,
I have three children – an older daughter and younger twin sons. When there are occasions for people to give them gifts my daughter always gets a gift of her own, but the boys get a single present for the two of them to share.
Queenie, how do I make people understand that the twins are 2 separate people and each one should get his own gift?—Offended father
Dear Father,
Tell them it hurts the twins’ feelings to receive only one gift for the two of them and if they cannot afford a separate gift for each child, it would be better to give no gifts at all.