Dear Queenie,
My father claims he loves my children very much, but whenever he has a disagreement with me about anything he stops seeing or even talking to them. Once we have settled our disagreement he goes back to being a loving grandfather to them.
Queenie, what kind of way is this for him to behave?—Offended mother
Dear Mother,
Being annoyed with one person and taking it out on their children is a very self-centred way for anyone to behave. Try to help your children understand that that is just how Grandpa is and has nothing to do with them.