Dear Queenie,
When I ask the woman I’m dating about something that requires a big decision, she says she can’t decide now because she doesn’t know how things will be in 5 or 10 years.
Queenie, how can anyone know how things will be in the future? Obviously, the decisions we make now will have an effect on that. What’s the matter with her?—Puzzled boyfriend
Dear Boyfriend,
What kind of questions are you asking? Do they require that your girlfriend make some sort of commitment to you that she is trying to avoid?
Or could it be that she wants a commitment from you before she makes her decision?
