Dear Queenie,
I have read several letters from people complaining about their husband or wife still being friends with his or her ex-wife or -husband.
My wife stayed on good terms with her ex and I always liked him and we have gotten to be pretty good friends, so having him around for family events like holidays or birthdays is no problem,
Queenie, why can’t people just learn to get along? It makes things a lot easier for everyone, especially the kids.—Second husband
Dear Second husband,
You are quite right. It is a pity others with previously-married spouses cannot share your attitude and point of view.