Dear Queenie,
I’m in a serious relationship with a woman and I’m thinking about asking her to marry me. My problem is that she likes to flirt and several of those other men have asked her to marry them.
She says it doesn’t mean anything, but she even took a couple of trips with a man she says is her cousin so I don’t have anything to worry about.
Queenie, should I believe her, or should I be worried?—Suspicious
Dear Suspicious,
This woman cannot be trusted. Even if that other man really is her cousin, that does not mean there is nothing going on between them. Start looking for someone you can trust.