Dear Queenie,
A friend of mine has a terminal illness and his family invited a group of us, his friends, to a “goodbye” dinner for him.
Queenie, do we have to send “thank you” notes? And who do we send them to?—“Thank you” Etty Ket
Dear Etty Ket,
Send a “thank you” note to the person who invited you to the dinner, and if your friend is well enough to understand it, send another note to him saying how much you enjoyed spending time with him and appreciate being invited to the dinner.