Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend wants me to move in with him and for us to live together for a while before we get married. I believe people should get married before they start living together.
He says we should get to know each other completely before we decide to make such a commitment. I think that making that commitment gives you more strength in solving relationship problems.
Queenie, what do you say?—Traditional woman
Dear Traditional woman,
I say you both have good reasons for your opinions on the subject and this is something the two of you will have to work out between you.
And, as always, I say professional counselling, separately and together, might help.