Dear Queenie,
I have met a man I like very much and he claims to like me too, and we get along really well and both like all the same things, but I worry about getting in a relationship with him because he admits that he has never been faithful to any woman he was with, not even when he was married.
He says that he is happier with me than he has ever been before and that he would never cheat on me, but I find it hard to believe him.
Queenie, what do you think?—Undecided girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
I too find it hard to believe that this man would never cheat on you. You will have to decide whether you are willing to put up with such behaviour if you stay with him, because it is not likely that he will change.