Dear Queenie,
For a couple of years now my husband has been talking online with a married woman. I have met her but I do not know her well, but it seems he does, because their chats last for almost an hour and they also text each other a lot every day.
I asked him what all they talk about, but he won’t tell me. He says they are not having an affair.
I went for counselling about this and he came with me one time, but he got mad and walked out when the counsellor asked him about his contacts with this other woman, and he wouldn’t ever go back with me again.
Queenie, am I wrong to be upset by all this?—Unhappy wife
Dear Wife,
No, you are not wrong. Even if there has been nothing physical between them, your husband seems to be having an emotional affair with this woman and is refusing to face the fact that that is what his relationship with her is.
I hope you will continue with counselling without him, to help you decide how to handle this situation the in best way for yourself, since your husband will not cooperate.
