Dear Queenie,
My girlfriend and I have been together since high school. We both have graduated from university and both have good jobs, and are saving up to get married in a couple of years.
The problem is that all our friends say we’re too young to rush into such a serious commitment.
Queenie, are they right?—Worried fiancé
Dear Fiancé,
Maybe your friends feel too young to make such a serious commitment as marriage, but planning two years ahead is not “rushing into” anything. If your friends are not comfortable with your level of commitment and your plans, perhaps it is time for you to find a more adult social circle.
