Dear Queenie,
When I looked at my wife’s phone I saw some messages she had been sending to and getting from a man she works with that had nothing to do with their work. After I asked her about him she deleted the messages and blocked him from her phone and I forgave her for whatever she had with him.
Queenie, I don’t look at her phone any more, but maybe I should. What do you think?—Worried husband
Dear Husband,
You should be able to trust your wife, and if she were doing anything she should not be doing, she would not leave her phone out where you can look into it.