Worried husband

Dear Queenie,

  My wife and I have a good sex life but only if I start things going. I’m beginning to think she just doesn’t enjoy it that much, or maybe I’m not as attractive to her as I think.

  Queenie, is she just doing me a favor?—Worried husband

 

Dear Husband,

  Many women have been brought up to believe that it is not proper for a woman to initiate sexual activity, even with their husband. Also, many women find sex unrewarding or even painful when their hormone levels change with menopause.

  It might help if you talk to your wife about this, with the help of her doctor or a professional counsellor if necessary.