Dear Queenie,
My grown-up son is abusive and we had a big argument a while ago and haven’t seen each other since then and this has been the most pleasant time I have had in a long time.
Queenie, should I try to make it up with him or let things stay the way they are?—Worried mother
Dear Mother,
If you caused the argument, you owe it to your son to apologise. If he caused it, it is up to him to try to make things right and in the meantime you can enjoy things the way they are now.
