Dear Queenie,
I’m a man almost 30, but I still live with my parents because they need me to help them around the house and with some health problems they have. I have finished college and have my degree and a part-time job, but I don’t feel like I have done very much with my life.
Queenie, how can I stop feeling like a loser?—Adult son still living with parents
Dear Adult Son,
You are not a loser, you have done quite a bit with your life: You have earned your degree, you hold a job and you take care of your parents. It might help if you talk this over with a professional counsellor who can give you some perspective on your questions about yourself.