Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend and I have been going together for about 3 years. Recently we spent a weekend at a hotel and every time he had to pay for something he asked me to help him with some money. I wasn’t expecting that and didn’t plan to spend so much. He has promised to pay me back, but I don’t know when.
Queenie, is it wrong of me to feel bad about this?—Angry girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
Your boyfriend should have talked to you beforehand about what he could afford to spend on this romantic weekend, and asked you what you could afford to contribute. I do not blame you for not feeling good about this.
