Dear Queenie,
My girlfriend and I have been living together for a couple of years. Money is short these days and her parents have invited us to live with them for a while, but they are very religious and they expect us not to sleep together because we are not married.
Queenie, we’re both adults and we’ve been together for a long time. Shouldn’t we be able to sleep together?—Boyfriend alone in bed
Dear Boyfriend,
You will be guests in your girlfriend’s parents’ home and you should abide by their rules.
It might be different if you and your girlfriend were married, and possibly if you were going to get married soon. Have you considered that?