Dear Queenie,
My boyfriend and I have been going together for about 4 years and I think he is going to propose to me, because his best friend just proposed to his girlfriend and my boyfriend always does like his friend does – he takes me to the same kind of places and gets me the same kind of gifts as his friend gives his girlfriend.
If my boyfriend does propose soon after his friend has done it, I’m going to say “no” because I won’t say “yes” to a copycat proposal.
Queenie, what do you think about all this?—Copycat’s girlfriend
Dear Girlfriend,
Your boyfriend seems to be unable to make major decisions on his own and is not likely to change. You probably would be much happier with someone more mature.