Dear Queenie,
I’ve been dating a woman for several months and her little son has started calling me “Daddy”, but his mother and I haven’t been getting along with each other very well and I’m thinking of breaking up with her, but I’ll miss being her son’s “Daddy”.
Queenie, what should I do?—Daddy but not husband
Dear Not husband,
You should be in love with, or at least care deeply for, the person you marry. The best thing you can do is break up with this woman. But be sure to tell her son what is going to happen and make sure he understands that it does not have anything to do with him or your feelings for him.