Dear Queenie,
I was dating a man for a while and then I stopped seeing him, but he kept sending me text messages and driving past my house.
Then a friend of mine said she had a new boyfriend who turned out to be my ex, who keeps on sending me texts and pictures and driving past my house.
If I tell my friend about all this she will just think I’m jealous, and I’m afraid to spend any time with her because he might show up and I don’t want to see him.
Queenie, what can I do?—Confused and worried
Dear Confused and worried,
If you show your friend the texts this man sends you, hopefully she will not think you are jealous. And if you can get pictures of him driving by your house you can go to the police with them and the texts and pictures he sends you and ask them to try to stop him, maybe with a restraining order.
