Dear Queenie,
Many years ago I was engaged to get married but my fiancé broke the engagement and later married someone else. Recently he got in touch with me and apologized for what he did back then and said he was divorced and wanted to get back in touch with me again.
I’ve gotten over him and what he did to me back then, but I’m not with anyone right now and I’m curious about what he’s like now.
Queenie, should I take a chance and meet up with him and see what happens?—Ex-fiancée
Dear Ex-fiancée,
Yes, meet up with him and see what he is like now. But if he wants any kind of close relationship with you, you should insist on professional couple’s counselling to learn about what went wrong the first time you were with him and make sure it does not happen again.