Dear Queenie,
I have stopped inviting my sister to visit me because she brings her children with her and just lets them run wild. Now she is mad at me for not seeing her more often.
Queenie, should I tell her why?—Fed-up aunt
Dear Aunt,
Yes, you should tell her – as gently and diplomatically as possible.
Perhaps you can arrange to have someone there to look after the children when she visits you, or arrange to see her in some place where she cannot bring the children.
