Dear Queenie,
We (my husband and I) have dinner out with a bunch of friends a couple of times a month. One of the other wives always flirts with my husband. She hugs him and wants to dance with him and makes sexy comments to him and my husband seems to like it. He says he’s never cheated on me and he just doesn’t want to be rude to her.
Queenie, how do I deal with all this?—Fed-up wife
Dear Wife,
Your husband should make it clear to this woman that he is not interested in her “attention”. If he cannot (or will not) do this, I suggest professional counselling to help him learn how to do so and help you learn how to deal with the situation.