Dear Queenie,
When my daughter-in-law had a baby I tried to help her out and I learned a lot about what kind of help new mothers really need. It’s not enough to hold the baby when he/she cries.
If there are older children, help with them – dress them, feed them, take them out, keep them busy when their mother is taking care of the new baby. Help with the housework and the cooking for the rest of the family. Do the grocery shopping, and be sure to ask the new mother for a list of what she wants you to buy.
Queenie, this will mean so much more to her than any cute baby gifts you give her.—Helpful mother-in-law
Dear Helpful,
Thank you for your suggestions. I am sure your daughter-in-law really appreciated the help you gave her.
