Dear Queenie,
I’m a middle-aged divorced man who has no intention of getting married again, but it seems all the women I meet and go out with are mainly interested in finding a husband.
Queenie, how do I find women who are interested in going out with me, but not any long-term commitment?—Not interested in marriage
Dear Not interested in marriage,
If you have a dating profile, you should make that statement part of your profile, and repeat as necessary during any personal contact. Make it plain from the time you meet a woman that you will not change your mind about this (and hope that she will believe it).