Dear Queenie,
I asked my girlfriend to marry me and picked out a nice engagement ring, but she didn’t like the style and showed me a picture of one she liked better.
Queenie, I’m the one who did the asking and paid for the ring. Shouldn’t I be the one to choose the style? We can choose the wedding rings together. And if she changes her mind about marrying me, does she still get to keep the ring?—Husband-to-be, I hope
Dear I hope,
Your fiancee (I hope) is the one who will be wearing the ring, so the smart thing to do is give her one she likes. And if she changes her mind about marrying you she should not keep the ring.
