Dear Queenie,
I’m a married man with children in high school, but my marriage is not as good as it used to be and I have been waiting for the kids to be grown up before I do anything about it.
Recently I met up with the woman who was my first girlfriend when I was in high school and she says her marriaage is not so good anymore too and, like me, she is just waiting for the kids to be grown up and out on their own, and we have been seeing each other.
Queenie, do you think we have a chance of making a good life together?—Can’t decide
Dear Can’t decide,
I think you both should stop cheating on your spouses and concentrate on either making your marriages work or honestly breaking them up. Get professional counselling to help you decide whether you want preserve your marriage and, if so, how to do it, or would rather break up your marriage honestly and, if so, how to go about it.
