Dear Queenie,
My husband and I are trying to have a baby and I am having a problem getting pregnant. My sister has also been trying to get pregnant without success.
Queenie, should I talk to her about it or would it hurt her feelings?—Infertile wife
Dear Wife,
By all means talk to your sister. It might even help her to know that you both are having the same problem, which may mean that it runs in your family. And it might help both of you to discover just what the problem is and to get proper medical treatment for it if possible.